4 WAYS TO DEAL WITH PEOPLE WHO MAY DISLIKE YOU (Unabridged)
By Mubita C. Nawa
There are people who love you and those who don't. Often we work so hard to be liked when we can just do what God wants us to do and the right people will come our way.
Never compromise on who you are to accommodate those who may never even like you no matter what you ever did. Here is a simple recipe on how to deal with those who may dislike you.
1- FORGIVE THEM FOR THEY PROBABLY DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY ARE DOING.
Forgiveness is a liberator. Let them be. Do not hold on to anger as there are no permanent enemies in life. People who may dislike you forget that they too have human weaknesses that we too may not like about them. So forgive them and let it go. It is for you freedom and liberation.
2- DEFEAT THEM WITH MORE SUCCESS. IT'S REALLY NOT YOU THEY DISLIKE. IT'S YOUR RESULTS.
Success is a painful thing to failures. So pile up success and let failures be. Failures (and there are no permanent failures) are those who refuse to rise from their setbacks. And we all experience setbacks in our lifetime.
3- NEVER RESPOND TO THEM DIRECTLY. SILENCE IS SO PAINFUL TO SHALLOW PEOPLE.
The Kenyans say even silence is a defense. It is painful to see people gossip behind your back. But let it go. God will fight your battles. Listen to some of the things people have to say because no man is an island. But never dwell on that. Don't give attention to cheap shots whose goal is to make you fall from your podium of grace.
4. USE THEM. USE THEM TO ADVERTISE YOU.
There is no such thing as bad publicity my friend. As long as you are being talked about your name is moving forward. What we must do is repent from our mistakes and change our lives. But there after you have no control. If I got pregnant (and I have never been pregnant) out of wedlock and have a child in the process. I have repented of my wrongs and have moved on. But you dislike me for that, then you are the one who must deal with that. As for me I am raising a brilliant child who I love and who I believe positive things for. So go ahead and advertise me all you want.
Their talking about you is helping you grow, mature and humble yourself. Most of all learn from them. Share this if you like it. You may bless someone.
Life is not perfect. Adam and Eve brought us challenges and trouble. But it is this trouble and these challenges that make us who we are; human. Anyone who pretends otherwise is not real.
May God bless you and enjoy the gift of life, the zest and zeal of getting up and the vivacity of believing God for a better tomorrow. I will see you on top where champions dwell.
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